Poor Little Tiger Cub The first major study of tiger moms is out. The kids have worse grades, and they are more depressed and more alienated from their parents

Paul Tullis:

When Amy Chua's book, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother came out in 2011, it sparked controversy among many people but especially psychologists and experts in child development. The book, they felt, had lodged in the culture certain stereotypes about an Asian parenting style that was not well-studied or well-understood and certainly not ready to be held up as some kind of model.

Chua's book was a somewhat tongue-in-cheek memoir of her experiences raising her two daughters with her (non-Asian) husband, which involved hours of forced music practice every day, severe restrictions on extracurriculars, outright bans on social activities like sleepovers, and punishment and shaming on the rare occasions her children failed to attain their mother's high expectations. Chua eased off as her kids grew older, and she admitted that she might have been wrong in some instances. (Mainstream media coverage portrayals were somewhat less nuanced). Nonetheless, the story of a Yale-professor mother who had pushed her child until she landed at Carnegie Hall seemed to confirm that Asian-American parents are tough, demanding--and they consistently produce whizzes.

When Chua's book first hit the transom, Su Yeong Kim thought, "Oh my God! I actually have data for this!" An associate professor of human development and family sciences at the University of Texas, Kim had been following more than 300 Asian-American families for a decade when the book came out. In March, she published her results; they will no doubt surprise Chua and her admirers. Children of parents whom Kim classified as "tiger" had lower academic achievement and attainment--and greater psychological maladjustment--and family alienation, than the kids of parents characterized as "supportive" or "easygoing."

Posted by Jim Zellmer at May 12, 2013 3:28 AM
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